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Not A Sad Movie

Dave and I finally watched Nomadland a few days ago. Since it was the winner of six Academy Awards I had read about its plot and had watched some trailers before I saw the movie. From these bits of information, I expected it to be a very sad film but surprisingly overall it was not.

It tells the story of a woman named Fern who has no children. Her husband dies. The key industry in the town where they lived ceases operation and so the town basically dies too and Fern decides to leave. She puts most of her belongings in storage and sets off on a trip in her van which she has outfitted so she can live in it.

Fern walks under the Arizona sunset

Fern drives through such beautiful parts of America. The landscape photography in the movie is stunning. One of the scenes in the South Dakota badlands shows Fern fairly dancing through all these wondrous rock formations and there are some scenes in Arizona where the camera shots of the desert are breathtaking. Fern whose character is played brilliantly by Frances McDormand thrives on the beauty of her natural surroundings.

Fern takes joy in the act of work, even the most menial tasks are attacked with determination. On her journey she picks up temporary jobs- working in an Amazon warehouse, cleaning a campground, doing food preparation in a restaurant kitchen, and harvesting sugar beets. She is able to view these jobs with humor and is thankful she has an opportunity to earn some money.

Fern and her friend Swankie having fun at work

Fern makes friends easily. It seems everywhere she goes people are attracted to her for her empathy, her no-nonsense approach, her straightforwardness, and her helping hand. She stays for winter with a group of seniors in Arizona who all live out of their vehicles and with them she finds companionship and joy and a kind of peace. Fern’s marriage seems to have been happy and loving and that gives her comfort even though her husband has died.

Although difficult circumstances force Fern to develop the transient minimalist lifestyle she adopts after a time she grows to appreciate it and feels comfortable with it. She has a sister who dearly loves her and invites Fern to live with her. Fern’s friend Dave also invites her to move in with his family. She just can’t! She prefers her own space. She likes living in her van.

Fern’s life is not easy, but she helps us to remember that when we take time to appreciate the wonders of nature, find workplaces where we can feel useful, are open to building human connections, and can maintain our sense of independence, then life can have meaning and mixed in with the inevitable sadness there can be a surprising amount of hope and joy.

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Ten Thoughts After Watching the Movie Minari

The Yi family in Minari- photo by Josh Ethan Johnson

Dave and I finally watched Minari last week a 2020 film that has been getting lots of attention recently. Here are some of the things I thought about as I processed my viewing experience.

1. Minari demonstrates why paying a living wage to people is so important. If couples are working hard at full time jobs they should be making enough money to provide for their family adequately. The film begins with Jacob and Monica Yi a Korean couple moving to Arkansas from California because despite the fact that both of them work full time at minimum wage jobs sorting baby chicks by sex they still can’t realize the American dream that brought them to the United States.

2. The family moves into a house trailer in rural Arkansas so Jacob can try his hand at farming and the film clearly shows that trailer living is no picnic. During our third year of marriage in the 1970s my husband and I lived in a house trailer in a small rural community and so I could relate. I remember how frozen pipes caused our trailer to flood and how the wind on the tin roof sounded like herds of bison were charging over our heads at night.

3. Life is hard in Arkansas and Monica is ready to leave while Jacob wants to stay and make a different life for his family. This causes lots of conflict and it made me think about how kids feel hearing their parents fight. My parents kept their differences basically behind closed doors although we kids knew they existed. Perhaps that gave us a more stable childhood but it certainly didn’t prepare me for the reality that married couples can fight vehemently and can have major differences which was certainly true in my own marriage. In Minari, the children David and his older sister Anne, make paper airplanes and write Don’t Fight on them to throw at their parents when they are having a big argument.

4. Interestingly the movie is not about racism. Thinking back to the various scenes after the movie was over I could not recall a single incident of blatant racist behaviour except perhaps an innocent racist remark made by a child at church to young David. The child later becomes David’s friend. While blatant racism especially against Asian Americans is definitely an issue today the film suggests that might not always have been the case. I think I might describe the relationship between the family in the film and their American neighbours as awkward, but not racist.

Yuh-Jung Youn won an Academy Award for best supporting actress for her performance as the grandmother in Minari

5. I loved that the grandmother in the movie is not a stock character. When Monica is having a hard time adjusting to life in Arkansas Jacob agrees Monica’s mother Soonja can come to America from Korea to live with them. Young David is upset that his Grandma isn’t a traditional Grandma who bakes cookies. His Grandma smells like Korea and brings foul tasting traditional medicines with her to cure David’s heart condition. She likes to watch wrestling on television and play cards. She teaches her grandchildren to swear in Korean. Yet this grandmother brings unconditional love into the troubled household and in the end David and his grandmother develop a heart-warming relationship. As a grandma myself I liked the fact that the movie showed there are no ‘typical’ grandmothers. Each is unique.

Will Patton plays the role of Paul in Minari

6. The movie’s characters are complex. One example is an eccentric and religiously charismatic character named Paul who is a Korean War veteran. He doesn’t go to church but spends his Sundays walking down the rural roads of his community with a huge cross. He comes to work on the farm with Jacob and is helpful, supportive and encouraging when Jacob needs that most.

7. I liked thinking about the similarities and differences between this movie and Parasite an award winning film from the previous year that is also about Korean families. You can read my thoughts on that movie here.

8. The movie reminded me of three statues of families I saw when I visited Seoul Korea. It also brought to mind the family relationships depicted in a middle grade novel I read recently called Peter Lee’s Notes From the Field and the complex family relationships in the book Older Sister: Not Necessarily Related by Winnipeg writer Jenny Heijun Wills. Click the links to see what I wrote about them.  

9. I was intrigued that the movie is really an autobiography of scriptwriter and director Lee Isaac Chung. What part of my childhood could possibly be turned into an interesting movie?

10. Minari is about a Korean family in the 1980s in rural America but they could be anyone’s family struggling to manage finances, health concerns, complicated family relationships and trying to maintain hope for a better future for their children.

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A Television Series Senator Plett Should Watch

I just finished watching the television series Unbelievable. It isn’t an easy drama to view but it is an important one. It tells a true story about a serial rapist who attacks a young girl in Washington and then a string of women in Colorado. He meets his match when two dogged female detectives literally work night and day and leave no stone unturned to try and find him and convict him.

Toni Collette and Merritt Wever are brilliant in their roles as two female detectives pursuing a serial rapist. – Photo from Netflix

Unbelievable teaches you a great deal about rape.

Police can interview victims in a way that makes them feel like their story isn’t believable or they can interview them in sensitive and respectful ways.

Although it shouldn’t make a difference, a woman’s past, her race, her age or even her occupation can have an impact on how seriously her rape claims are taken.

Men with military backgrounds and police backgrounds are checked first as possible suspects because they have a much higher rate of violent behaviour.

Police in one district don’t routinely share information about rapes with police in other districts. In Unbelievable the fact that detectives from two different districts work on finding a rapist together happens just as a matter of chance.

Rape changes a woman’s life forever. As the victims shared their stories in the trial during this series it didn’t matter whether they were box store workers or college students or grandmothers or career women the rapes devastated them, totally turned their lives upside down and left them vulnerable and afraid.

I kept thinking as I watched Unbelievable that a series like this should be mandatory viewing for judges and politicians. In 2017 former Conservative party leader Rona Ambrose introduced a bill in Parliament ensuring judges in Canada were trained in sexual-assault law. The bill required judges to learn about rape myths and stereotypes and how biases of race, gender and other social factors could influence their decisions.

Rona Ambrose the former leader of the Conservative Party of Canada

Rona Ambrose worked in a rape crisis centre in university and that experience made her realize the need for such a bill. She found support across the political parties for her legislation. Her efforts were definitely seen as necessary after an Alberta judge told a sexual assault victim she should have” just kept her knees together” and after a Halifax judge said a woman can give consent even when she is drunk. Ms. Ambrose said responses like those discourage women from reporting rapes and laying charges.

Rona Ambrose’s bill was passed unanimously in the House of Commons but Senator Don Plett from Manitoba and some of his Conservative colleagues decided to stall it in the Senate for over 700 days so it didn’t pass before the last federal election call. Ms Ambrose expressed her disdain that those “old boys” in the Senate had failed to protect Canadian women. She specifically called out Senator Plett for procedural stalling. A CBC article stated that “because of political procedural moves by the Conservative whip, Manitoba Sen. Don Plett, private member’s bills like Ms. Ambrose’s haven’t made it onto the Senate agenda.”

Such a response was hardly surprising since Senator Plett was a vocal supporter of President Trump who has faced some twenty-six charges of sexual misconduct, including rape, and brags about his skill at grabbing women’s genitalia. Senator Plett has referred to Mr Trump as his good friend.

Unbelievable makes you very aware that many things need to change if we want to adequately protect women from sexual assault and rape. I wonder if Senator Plett has watched Unbelievable? Maybe someone should suggest he do so.

Note: Something I found very interesting about the series is that one of the detectives on the case is a woman with a strong Christian faith and it helps her deal with the disturbing things she witnesses as she investigates rape incidents. Her partner on the case is an atheist because she can’t believe that if there was a God that God would allow such horrible things to happen to women. It is interesting to see how the two detectives influence one another in matters of faith as they pursue their case.

Note: The current Liberal government introduced a bill very similar to Ms. Ambrose’s and it passed in November. Because it is not a private member’s bill there is a much better chance it will make it through the Senate as well.

Note: The thing that makes Unbelievable so chilling is that it is almost 100% accurate in depicting a true story reported on the podcast This American Life and in a print story by Ken Armstrong and Christian Miller.


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Utterly Charming

Ladies in Black is a pure treat of a movie, completely engaging but not escapist fare by any means. I just watched it on Netflix and it truly took me into another world for a blissful couple of hours. Set in Sydney Australia in 1959 the show follows a group of women who work in the dress department of a huge store called Goode’s.

Rachael Taylor as Fay, Angourie Rice as Lisa, Julia Ormand as Magda and Alison McGirr as Patty

Each woman has her own story to tell and each provides a lovely arc of its own as its intertwines with the other stories. We meet Fay who is looking for a prince of a guy and can’t find him. There is Lisa, the young high school student who longs for a life different than the one of her good-hearted working-class parents. Her eyes are opened to a whole new world of culture and style by Magda a recent immigrant from Slovenia with a deadly fashion sense who sells the high- end dresses in the department. Finally there is Patty who is struggling to figure out why her young husband is so cold and distant .

The sets and costumes are spot on and the film transports you back fifty years with aplomb and perfection. Ladies in Black accurately depicts the attitudes towards women and sex and immigrants that were just beginning to change in the 60s.

I also really loved the film because it was shot in and around the Sydney area where we visited once for a couple of weeks. One scene takes place at Manley Beach where we rented a picturesque cottage and another in the Blue Mountains where we stayed at a cosy bed and breakfast.

If you are looking for a delightful evening of viewing I can highly recommend Ladies in Black. (No relation whatsoever to Men in Black) If you care about such things the film got an 88% positive rating on the Rotten Tomatoes site. I totally agreed with Australian film critic David Stratton who said about Ladies in Black “It brims with subtext and nuance and at the same time succeeds in being thoroughly enjoyable entertainment.”

I found Ladies in Black utterly charming and can highly recommend it.

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Two True Stories- Two Families- Two Boys-Two Discoveries

Two movies I watched this past week on Netflix were both based on true stories about families in tough situations. In each, a young boy had a key role in the plot and a healing discovery helps turn things around.

The Dig takes place in 1939. A young boy named Robert has lost his father who was an Air Force pilot. His mother is seriously ill. An ancient Anglo Saxon ship is discovered on his family’s estate and the interesting people who come to unearth it provide a diversion and some much-needed companionship for Robert. He strikes up a particularly close friendship with a local amateur archaeologist named Basil Brown who first discovers the ship.

Robert’s mother is ill and Robert strikes up a friendship with Basil Brown who is doing excavation work on the family estate

Basil is not a trained archaeologist and others with a more academic background are eager to assume charge of the dig and take credit for Basil’s discovery. In this way the movie reminded me a bit of Joan Thomas’ book Curiosity in which a young uneducated girl named Mary Anning finds all kinds of dinosaur fossils only to have professional palaeontologists vie to take credit for her discoveries.

I liked The Dig but it was a bit of a curious film because about half way through all these new characters with new stories of their own were introduced. Fascinating characters but they turned the focus of the film away from Robert and Basil who I’d already learned to know and was eager to find out more about.

Penguin Bloom takes place in 2013. A young boy named Noah is vacationing in Thailand with his parents and two brothers when his mother suffers a fall that leaves her paralyzed from the waist down. Back home in Australia, Noah’s Mom struggles mightily to deal with her physical limitations and her emotional trauma is impacting her whole family. Then Noah discoveries a little magpie chick that has fallen out of its nest and brings it home. Noah’s Mom eventually grows attached to Penguin and caring for the little bird ends up providing healing for the whole family.

Noah brings home a baby magpie he names Penguin who quickly makes its way into the heart of everyone in the family

This film reminded me a bit of the book The Art of Racing in the Rain because in that story an animal helps a family in emotional turmoil as well. Enzo the dog brings healing to a race car driver and his daughter after their wife and mother dies of cancer.

I liked Penguin Bloom although the story does tend to be a bit too predictable and sentimental and the filmmakers leave little for the viewer to interpret, pretty much telling us what we are supposed to learn about life from the movie.

The Dig and Penguin Bloom provide viewers with two true stories of young boys and their families facing tough situations. An interesting discovery provides healing and a measure of happiness in each movie. These aren’t perfect films but I can recommend them both as being well worth your time.

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Two Excellent Movies About Children Who Change Adults

I just watched two great movies each with a young man at their heart. Both boys are dealing with difficult challenges.

The 2020 movie Summerland takes place during World War II. At its heart is a schoolboy named Frank who has been evacuated from London to escape the bombings there. He misses his parents terribly and is worried about his father who is an airforce pilot. Frank has been sent to live in a small seaside village with a cynical and self-absorbed writer named Alice Lamb who takes no delight in having a child underfoot while she pursues her scholarly interests in myth and magic. Of course the charming Frank eventually charms his cantankerous hostess and he transforms Alice into a person she had forgotten she could be.

Cinematically beautiful storytelling takes us back into Alice’s past to help us understand her transformation in a new light. Although this movie is certainly about Frank, it is really more about how Frank changes Alice. This film is a feast for the eyes and the heart. Even critics who call out its convenient plot twist near the end admit the movie tugged at their heartstrings in ways they hadn’t expected.

The 2017 movie The Children Act is about a court case. At its heart is a 17-year-old boy named Adam who has leukemia. Doctors insist Adam needs a blood transfusion or he will die. His parents are Jehovah’s Witnesses and don’t want him to have the transfusion because it goes against their religious beliefs. Enter Judge Fiona Maye who must decide whether the hospital can provide treatment to Adam against his parent’s wishes. In order to make her final decision, Fiona goes to visit Adam in the hospital and talk to him personally.

The meeting sparks a friendship that Adam desperately wants to pursue once he recovers. Fiona whose personal life is a mess and who is totally absorbed in her work resists. Eventually, however, Adam manages to break through the wall around Fiona’s mind and heart, and in doing so he changes her in ways she couldn’t have imagined. This movie has some brilliant acting by Emma Thompson and Stanley Tucci.

I can recommend both of these films. Children have the power to change the adults around them. Both Summerland and The Children Act make that point in a convincing way.

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Poverty Porn

Poverty porn was a term used in the headline of Winnipeg Free Press film reviewer Alison Gillmor’s article about the new Netflix movie Hillbilly Elegy. Poverty porn in movies is when the filmmaker objectifies people living in poverty for the sake of entertaining a privileged audience. One of the qualities of a film defined as poverty porn is that it primarily displays the negative and fails to highlight the positive.

I think that is true of Hillbilly Elegy. One is hard-pressed to find many good qualities in the two main female characters in the film, a mother played by Glen Close, and her daughter played by Amy Adams. Although they each have one or two tiny tender moments in the script they are portrayed overall as deeply damaged harsh women whose life circumstances have all but defeated them.

This may look like a tender scene but Bev is actually trying to convince her teenage son to provide a urine sample she can pass off as her own for a drug test. She is using drugs and will lose her job as a nurse if a drug test comes back positive.

Reviewer John Miller says the women’s characters are almost completely defined by their suffering and poverty. He would have liked to see more moments of genuine happiness in the film.  

As I watched Hillbilly Elegy I was reminded of a 2010 film also set in Appalachia. Winter’s Bone stars Jennifer Lawrence. It does not shy away from depicting the desperation of much of life in Appalachia but it does give us a courageous seventeen-year-old heroine named Ree Dolly who we can really like and admire. Ree Dolly leaves the viewer with a sense of hope.  

Jennifer Lawrence plays a courageous Appalachian woman worthy of admiration in Winter’s Bone

Although I felt sorry for Bev and Mawmaw the female characters in Hillbilly Elegy and the terrible lot life had dealt them I just could not like or admire either of them.  The movie ends with Mawmaw having died and Bev addicted to heroin and still trying to manipulate her son and ruin his life. 

In an excellent article in The Atlantic, Cassie Chambers Armstrong writes about some of the caring, positive women in the Appalachian community where she grew up.  Could some of their qualities have been part of Bev and Mawmaw’s personalties or could some characters like them have populated the movie?  

I learned recently that the Appalachia area got its negative reputation fr0m President Lyndon Johnson who used it as an example of why things had to change during his war on poverty campaign in the United States.  Johnson may have had the best of intentions but in a way, he was engaged in poverty porn as well, although for political rather than entertainment purposes. 

I have to say that the movie Hillbilly Elegy did entertain me.  There is plenty of action and some stellar performances by great actors. But Hillbilly Elegy was not easy to watch and after reading Alison Gilmour’s review I couldn’t stop thinking about how a group of people was being stereotyped and vilified for the purposes of my entertainment. 

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The Whole World Is Watching

Dave and I watched the movie The Trial of the Chicago 7 recently on Netflix. It tells the story of a group of anti-Vietnam war protesters who were charged with crossing state lines to create riots and incite violence at the site of the 1968 Democratic National Convention. Five months after the convention a politically motivated John Mitchell, the attorney general for newly elected President Richard Nixon brought charges against the protestors.

Directed by Aaron Sorkin, the movie shows us the trial of the protestors and the actions that led up to it. As the accused men enter the courtroom they are cheered on by throngs of supporters holding signs and chanting “The Whole World is Watching.”

The phrase was the same one chanted by the protestors when they were beaten and arrested by the police outside the Conrad Hilton Hotel in Chicago during the convention. As police were pounding the protestors with night sticks and herding them into vans they were shouting “the whole world is watching” because they knew that the event was being taped by news reporters and would be shown on television.

The Problem We All Live With- by Norman Rockwell shows Ruby Bridges being escorted by United States Marshalls to an all white school in 1960.

Apparently the phrase “the whole world is watching” was first used during the fight to integrate schools in the United States in 1957. As I watched The Trail of the Chicago 7 I thought about how the scope and meaning of the phrase has changed so much since 1968.

The first social media platforms were used in 1997 some thirty years later and they truly do allow the “whole world to watch” in a visceral fashion as newsworthy events take place. When George Floyd died while a police officer knelt on his neck “the whole world was watching” in a way they never could of during the Vietnam war protests.

The Chicago 7 were found guilty despite the fact that the world could watch the blatant discrimination and prejudice with which they were treated during their trial.

And in one case after another police officers who have been charged with using unnecessary violence causing injury or death for black victims have been found innocent.

Donald Trump still garnered the support of 73 million Americans despite the fact that his corrupt, immoral and criminal actions were done in full view of “the whole world watching” for four years.

Does having “the whole world watch” truly make a difference?

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The Queen’s Gambit

I’m not a chess player but that didn’t prevent me from enjoying the Netflix series The Queen’s Gambit. The seven-episode drama follows the life of Beth Harmon (played by Anya Taylor Joy) who lands up in an orphanage after her mother is killed in a car accident. There she learns to play chess from the institution’s janitor and eventually goes on to become a highly successful world-class chess player.

I was shocked to learn that in the 1950s it was commonplace to give children in orphanages tranquillizers to keep them calm. Unfortunately, Beth becomes addicted to the pills she receives at the orphanage and she will struggle with that addiction for a long time to come.

The costumes in the series are period perfect.

I don’t want to give away too much of the story but suffice it to say it is superbly plotted and the costumes and sets perfectly reflect the 1950s and 60s time period in which the series takes place. The chess matches are exciting to watch even if you don’t know much about chess.

Beth and her adopted mother Alma played by Marielle Heller- Photo Phil Bray/ Netflix

Beth’s life is marked with tragedy but along the way, she builds relationships that matter, beginning with Mr Shaibel the janitor who teaches her to play chess. She makes a true friend in Jolene a girl at the orphanage. Beth is eventually adopted and builds a close bond with her adopted mother who has struggles of her own. Then there are her fellow chess players who always seem to rally round when she needs them most.

Beth often feels like she is all alone in the world and many scenes are drenched in her sadness and are agonizing to watch, but in the end, it is human connections that save her as they do us all.

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Becoming Movie Makers

We’ve been making lots of movies recently. Since large gatherings of people aren’t allowed during COVID, families and organizations have been getting creative about virtual celebrations and meetings. That’s meant my husband Dave and I have had to learn how to make movies. It hasn’t always been easy and we’ve had to master some new technology but with each recording, we get a little better.

Because a large group couldn’t gather for my brother-in-law and sister-in-laws’ anniversary well-wishers were invited to drive by and honk their congratulations.

At the end of August when my sister-in-law and brother-in-law were celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary we recorded a video message and a song for them to be played at the outdoor dinner they had with only their immediate family since a larger celebration wasn’t possible.

Dave making a music video for his friend’s birthday

This week Dave and a friend each recorded movies of themselves singing in a variety of settings and costumes to create a music video for a fellow golfer’s 75th birthday celebration.

Here’s Dave recording his song for a baby shower for our son and daughter-in-law

A planned outdoor baby shower for our son and his wife had to be cancelled after it was announced that Winnipeg was going Code Red so the organizers asked those of us who would have attended to make videos for the soon to be parents. I created a list of reasons why our son and his wife would be good parents and my husband wrote a take on an old popular song he titled “Having My Grandchild”.

I’d never actually ‘watched’ myself giving a sermon and it was a little disconcerting

I was supposed to give a sermon in a church two Sundays ago but because at that point I was still visiting my Dad in his seniors’ facility several times a week I was nervous about being with a larger group. So I recorded a video of me giving my sermon and sent it to the church.

This was our first attempt at making a movie at the start of the pandemic

Earlier in the pandemic, Dave and I recorded a video of the two of us performing a couple of duets for a service at our church. As we’ve made our more recent mini-movies I’ve thought about how far we’ve come in our movie-making expertise since then.

The pandemic is teaching us all kinds of new things. Movie making is just one of them.

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